The sort of program that once set up, just ticks along without fuss or bother forever.
For me, as I’m replacing the vms today which I set up five years ago and haven’t needed to touch since;
- HAProxy
- KeepaliveD
Not easy to learn, but once they’re running, they both go on forever.
I would say Debian stable is the way to go!
Unfortunately it’s not new enough to run grate on my 9950x, 870E motherboard because a lot of things is buggy and not working in optimal!