“Why should I trust a bunch of randos with it? Why should I give them my password? […]”
lol that right there you should respond no one should have your PASSWORD (singular) to begin with. Companies large and small have data breaches all the time. If the same password is on more than 5-10 sites, you should assume it’s been compromised by now, and explain that they need a password manager.
Far as it goes with professional companies, we are talking public posting social media, the differences between them are all public, the biggest thing is what they chose to censor. Twitters cool with letting nazi’s speak, but censoring the left. Most lemmy instances are the opposite, but there even are lemmy instances that are backwards with that… which is the point. We all have differing oppinions on where the line should be drawn on acceptable speech, Being able to custom pick one of 50 groups is more likely to find one that works for you, than picking one of 3 social media giants that will have their own rules.
Doesn’t a company have more guarantee to be lawful, because they will be under the magnifier glass compared to a bunch of anonymous individuals?>
As we see every day companies are not held accountable. As for a bunch of individuals the rest of the servers can shun people (deFederate) that are doing unacceptable behavior just like in real life when living in a society.
That doesn’t mean anything to normal people.
I tried explaining it to my parents and they didn’t understand why that would be a good thing:
"Doesn’t a professional company know better how to run this?
Doesn’t a company have more guarantee to be lawful, because they will be under the magnifier glass compared to a bunch of anonymous individuals?
Why should I trust a bunch of randos with it? Why should I give them my password? […]"
“Why should I trust a bunch of randos with it? Why should I give them my password? […]”
lol that right there you should respond no one should have your PASSWORD (singular) to begin with. Companies large and small have data breaches all the time. If the same password is on more than 5-10 sites, you should assume it’s been compromised by now, and explain that they need a password manager.
Far as it goes with professional companies, we are talking public posting social media, the differences between them are all public, the biggest thing is what they chose to censor. Twitters cool with letting nazi’s speak, but censoring the left. Most lemmy instances are the opposite, but there even are lemmy instances that are backwards with that… which is the point. We all have differing oppinions on where the line should be drawn on acceptable speech, Being able to custom pick one of 50 groups is more likely to find one that works for you, than picking one of 3 social media giants that will have their own rules.
That’s exactly what I am getting at. Saying “decentralized” doesn’t convey all the info from your long explanation to normal people.
As we see every day companies are not held accountable. As for a bunch of individuals the rest of the servers can shun people (deFederate) that are doing unacceptable behavior just like in real life when living in a society.